To be in charge of your own life, you need to get rid of some ridiculous ideas.The measure of a person's wisdom is not how much education he or she has or how much achievement he or she own in a certain field, but whether he or she can use positive
to live a happy life every day.We may not be able to solve a real problem completely, but it is up to us to keep our spirits up to deal with the adversity, or to look at life with complaints. Most of the time, life's problems are not how to solve them, but how to deal with them, maintain a positive attitude and self-worth.
Sometimes, people pessimistic think their own problems, more difficult than others, but actually they are very similar, small to disagreement, conflict, big to economic wealth, sickness and death, natural and man-made disaster, some people can never buck up, while others who regard it as a life experience, never use things which can not changed as evaluation standard of their own happiness is the person who know how to dominate the happiness.
Emotions are optional.
Emotion is your psychological response to external things. Once you learn to master your mind, you can stimulate your inner strength, because emotion becomes an optional factor rather than a necessity. In this way, people will be remain indifferent and calmly.
要想主宰自己，就需要摒弃一些荒谬的观点。
衡量一个人智慧的标准，并不是拥有多高的学历，在某方面有多高的成就，而是是否每天都能运用正向的能量，努力幸福地生活。
或许，我们不能完全去解决一个实际的问题，但是使自己保持好精神，应对困境，还是充满抱怨地看待生活，是可以由自己决定的。
很多时候，生活的难题，并不是要我们如何去解决，更重要的是如何去应对，保持乐观积极的心态和自我价值。
有时候，人们会悲观的认为自己所面临的问题，比别人更加困难，其实我们每一个所面临的问题都很相似，小到意见分歧，矛盾冲突，大到经济财富，生老病死，天灾人祸，有些人会因此一阕不振，有的人却将其视为人生的一个经历，不以这些无法改变的事情作为评价自身幸福的标准，便已经是一个懂得主宰幸福的人了。
情绪是可以选择的。
情感是你对外界事物的心理反应，一旦学会主宰自己的心智，便能激发自己内心的力量，因为情绪变成了一种可选因素，而不是一种必然，如此，遇事便能宠辱不惊，从容淡定。